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For my Blogging from A to Z April Challenge, I am writing about how storytellers, writers, parents, teachers (in other words, just about anyone) can reimagine beauty to be more inclusive. That way, people with disabilities, varying body types and racial backgrounds, etc. (in other words, anyone) can feel and be recognized by the world as the beauties they truly are.
Reimagining Beauty – S is for Style
My cousin can suss out the sweetest clothes in thrift shops. Out of the mounds of cast off togs piled high on shelves or squished together on racks, she zeroes in on the perfect item to snazz up her wardrobe. That girl has style.
She dresses impeccably to match her personality and figure. Her outfits change from day to day to match the varied sides of her personality and her whimsical moods. Not only does she have personal style, she can extend her gift to others (including style-challenged people…. namely moi). Matching clothes to personality while accentuating and flattering someone’s body shape is a skill that could be adopted by computer scientists to improve dating website algorithms.
A costume designer I know also has style. He can look at a person’s coloring and shape, evaluate the needs of the script, and fashion costume and hair that not only speaks volumes about a time and place and character, but makes the actor look great too. From his hands comes ravishing art.
I’m not speaking of style as in clothing style or genre. We can all dress punk or preppie. I’m talking about style that comes from the discriminating eye, knowing instinctively whether punk or preppie works on someone. People like this can mix and match items and colors, accessories, and clothing genres. They fashion fashion, as it were. They also can curate outfits that not only flatter, but reflect the wearer. That’s the kind of style I’m talking about. It’s beautiful.
And then, when people wear their style with style? Well that’s beauty with a cherry on top.
If our appearance or body type doesn’t match a “standard,” it is not relevant to achieving beauty. What we do with those raw materials is what counts. Our carriage and our comfort with how we present ourselves is stylized beauty to be reckoned with.
Beauty is not any one characteristic. Beauty can be many things. Use language and imagery to highlight the beauty of those with style, who aren’t afraid to display their inner selves through their outer wear. People with and without disabilities can do this, people of all shapes and sizes and colors can be fashioned in style, in life and story.
Be stylish and write and tell about the head-turning beauties that any of us can be. It’s in style 😉
What are your thoughts about this?
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